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Business Needs Communication To Teach You How To Talk With Strangers.

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1. Listen to accent. When you communicate with strangers, you first listen to accents. If you recognize this accent, then say, "are you from Shandong?" the other said, "yes, how do you know?" you said, "I heard your accent like Shandong, are you here on business or in this exhibition?" Then we can chat about related topics. 
 but listen to < a href= > //www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp > accent > /a > you need to familiarise yourself with accents everywhere. At the same time, it is best to learn a few words from different places. Learn a few more iconic words, such as learning a few words in Wuhan: "what do you want to do?" learn a few words in Sichuan: "do you grasp the old?" (what's the matter with you), so when you meet Wu Han people and Sichuan people, they can instantly draw the distance between them, and the topic is naturally more. 
 two, ask your hometown, find < a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > topic < /a >. This is a relatively extensive way of using, but many people do not follow the question after they finish asking their hometown. After you finish asking your hometown, you need to have the following parts to continue. 
 there are generally two cases after finishing home: 
 one is you are familiar with that place, for example, the other party says he is Wuhan, then I will say immediately: "my university is read in Wuhan, Huazhong University of Science and Technology, stayed in Wuhan for four years." Then you can talk to him about the weather in Wuhan, how the bus stops, how the universities in Wuhan are, and so on. 
 there is a situation where you are not familiar with that place and do not know about the local situation. At this time most people do not know how to continue the conversation. For example, the other party says that he is in Sixian, Anhui. I have never heard of this place before, and I will ask, "what is the most famous place in Sixian?" "do you have any special products in Sixian?" after throwing these questions, let the other side play, each place always has their own good place, which is also the topic most people would like to talk about, and they also have obvious pride on their faces. In this way, the topic will be more and more. 
 three. After meeting strangers, look for related topics from outside. For example, he took a book in his hand, and I could say, "Yo, what book are you reading"? Of course, we'll find something related to it in our hands. Moreover, we can see from < a target= "_blank" href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/" > clothing < /a >, generally we can see a person's occupation from his clothes, his working environment, and so on, can make these breakthroughs. 
 four, focusing on work, occupation and graduation schools. 
 1, Graduate School: 
 "you graduated from Huazhong University of Science and Technology too, alas, brother! What kind of session do you have?" 
 "Xiamen University? Oh, a beautiful university. I went to graduate school with one of my classmates, and that Yi Zhongtian is also your school. It's amazing! By the way, what is your major in Xiamen University?" 
 "Sichuan University, ah, I heard that you have a lot of beautiful women, very happy, unlike our engineering school, monk school. When did you graduate? ".
People who have read the university should know more or less about the University, and find topics easily, especially those famous schools. P If you encounter an unknown school, you can focus on "ability". 
 the other said, "a small school, I said, you certainly do not know." We can say: "school education is not the most important thing. The most important thing is the ability to work. In society, it depends on strength. Do you think it is?" 
 2, work and occupation: 
 "you are buying, ah, you buy lots of oil and water." 
"P?" "Trainer? I admire the trainer most. When I stand on stage, I will be able to speak clearly and correctly. I will not be able to speak up when I get up. Can you help me?" 
 "it's not easy to start a business or start a business, but this life experience is still very valuable. Like your business, there are many stories to tell you, whether it's a successful story or a failure story, isn't it?" 
 "do foreign trade? Now foreign trade is good to do? Where to do foreign trade? Where to do it?" 
 five, try to figure out the conversation and explore common ground. 
After opening up a stranger with P, you should gradually seek common ground and create topics in conversation. In the process of conversation, we try to find out what interests the other side has. 
 Internet access. What kind of website do you usually play? Don't play games? What kind of games do you play? 
 calligraphy, I used to learn Yan style. What font do you write? I haven't practiced for a long time. Can you teach me a few tricks? 
 chess, Chinese chess exercises a person's thinking, let people do things step by step, long time no longer, free time, we kill two plates. 
 for example, what kind of book is reading? What kind of book are you looking at? Economics and management. Recently, I was reading Drucker's book. I think his management idea is very good. What do you think? 
 summary: communicating with strangers is actually a sentence in the final analysis: "good at finding common topics". 
 if you think you can't find a common topic, there are two situations. In the first case, you don't listen and look for it. Living in the same era and seeking the same country, how can there be no common topic? The second thing is to know nothing about the other party. At this point, you should think about why, is your knowledge narrow? Do you know too little? How can you enrich yourself? 
 eloquence, interpersonal communication, a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > skill < /a > is not enough, but also needs internal enrichment. Eloquence is a person's internal external performance. So if you want to be able to communicate smoothly with strangers, you usually need to accumulate more and more meaning in order to let yourself know a little bit no matter what you talk about.