Treasure Book: Tips For Dealing With People

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Dr. Luo Ya, a professor of psychology at Stanford University, believes that everyone has sufficient conditions to become a supervisor, but he must learn something.

Treat others and do things

The following are skills.
教授的建议：

No matter how competent and confident you are, you should avoid indulge in self admiration and let yourself become an isolated island. In your colleagues, you need to find one or two intimate friends.

When you find someone in your colleagues who disagrees with you, you don't have to worry about it. This may be the relationship between "slight words and slight words". The other party takes "old age" as a self, and thinks you are young and lack of work experience. You should try to get some support from your predecessors and let people not dare to belittle you.

If you want to be appreciated and trusted by your superiors, you must first have confidence in yourself and appreciate yourself. Do not say "no" to yourself. Even though you lack experience, you need not feel depressed. If you make up your mind to do well, you will perform well.

Do everything in your power and do your best. If you are in a situation where some colleagues are eyeing you and pointing out your mistakes at any time, you need to be vigilant and learn to get along with them and communicate with each other in a timely manner. This is a prerequisite for every successful person.

Use meals with other colleagues.
沟通，增进感情，消除彼此之间的隔膜，有助于你的事业发展。